Join the Initiation: in 6 Weeks We Are Owning Change, Not Letting it Be a criticism!
The Initiation:
6 Weeks of Real Work for the Woman Who IS done
We're Not Fixing... We're Becoming Who We Are
You already know who you're becoming. You just need someone in your corner while you learn to hold her.
• You know exactly what you need to say — and then the moment comes and you don't say it
• You've been told you've changed like it's a warning
• You hold the line for about five minutes before the guilt talks you back out of it
• You cancel the thing that was yours because something came up for someone else — again
• You settle in for the night and start thinking maybe I should do the thing — and then talk yourself out of it before morning
You are happier than you've been in years and somehow lonelier in it
It was one question on a therapy call.
Who is most important?
...And the moment I said my answer out loud I knew. I had completely disappeared.
But, it was the moment everything made sense.
The boundaries were never the problem — the guilt collapsing it was.
My Aha Moment came when I heard it myself....
The moment I said my answer out loud I knew. I wasn't the priority- I said it myself.
I realized I had completely disappeared. Not in a dramatic way. In the quietest, most efficient way possible — I had been so busy being everything to everyone that I had negotiated myself out of the equation entirely.
And the wildest part? Nobody noticed. Because I was still showing up.
Once I stopped trying to fix my boundaries and started working on the guilt that was collapsing them — everything shifted.
Not because I finally got my boundaries right. Because I finally got honest about what was taking them down.
I am a mom of 4. I am in the middle of this work — not on the other side of it. I am not coaching you from the finish line. I am in the thick of it with you, practicing the same things I am teaching, learning the same lessons in real time.
And I built this because women like us deserve a room where we don't have to explain why we've changed. Where someone already gets it. Where the work is real and the support doesn't disappear between sessions.
That's The Initiation. And it's time.
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This is a sisterhood. For the woman who is done negotiating herself down to a size that fits everyone else's comfort.
The Initiation is not a course.
It is not a productivity program.
It is not a system or a framework or a fix.
6 weeks: Long enough to do real work. Short enough that you'll actually finish it.
20 women: Intentionally small. Because this work requires a room, not an audience.
What You'll Walk Away with...
At the end of 6 weeks you will have three concrete things.
One clear boundary you can actually stick with.
Built by you. Held by you. Tested in real life. Not a concept — a real yes or no you can stand behind when the moment comes.
One scary thing planned.
Specific. Dated. No more someday. The thing you've been circling finally has a when attached to it.
Real feedback from a real human
Me. Directly. At the moment in the program when you need it most. Not a worksheet. Not a recorded lesson. A real human who gets it because she's in it too.
She says no and doesn't spend the rest of the day replaying it. She does the scary thing and doesn't wait for someone else to tell her it was okay. She takes up space — not as an act of defiance, but because it finally feels like hers.
Because she finally stopped waiting for permission from herself..
and one day it just happens....
Not in a big dramatic moment. In the ordinary ones.
Before The Initiation: She apologizes for taking up space. She overexplains a decision nobody asked her to justify. She cancels her own appointment because something came up for someone else. She asks everyone else's opinion before trusting her own. She avoids the conversation she's needed to have for three years.
After The Initiation: She books the appointment and keeps it. She says no without a paragraph explanation. She makes decisions faster because she's done asking for permission. She asks for what she wants. She follows through.
Not because she became a different person. Because she finally stopped negotiating herself out of being who she already was.
here is what 6 weeks Looks like.
who you are now?
We name where you actually are. Not where you think you should be. Not where you were. Where you are right now. That alone will shift something..
the yes/no
We build your one clear boundary. Not a concept — a real boundary in your real life that you can hold when the moment comes and every part of you wants to fold.
the guilt
We go directly at the guilt. Because that's what's actually been making your decisions. And we both know it.
the pushback
We work through the pushback. The silence, the frustration, the you've changed. You will leave this week knowing how to hold your ground without explaining yourself into the ground.
This week you learn how to hear you've changed without taking it back. How to let the silence sit without filling it. How to hold the line even when it feels like too much.
the scary thing
We plan the scary thing. The one you've been circling.
-Maybe it's filing for divorce.
-Maybe it's launching the business.
-Maybe it's applying for the job.
-Maybe it's setting the boundary with her mother-in-law she's been avoiding for years. -Maybe it's booking the solo trip.
You will leave this week with a date attached to it. Not someday. When..
The Becoming
We close the loop on who you are becoming. Not as a performance. As a reality.
This isn't a graduation. It's a reckoning.
You leave with language for who you are now so you stop explaining yourself and start just being yourself.
And something real to come back to when life gets loud and the old patterns start calling.
HERE IS WHAT COMES WITH SAYING YES
This first round of The Initiation is for founding members only.
20 women. That's it.
Not because of artificial scarcity. Because I want the right women in this room for the work we are going to do. It won't be easy. But it is time. Time to take up space and do the thing that is for us — not as a byproduct of everything else we manage and carry and make happen for other people. Just for us.
What's included:
✦ 6 weeks of self paced content — video, audio, and written
✦ Two live calls at the moments that matter most — with replays
✦ A community that holds you between sessions
✦ Voxer access to me between sessions
✦ Direct feedback from me throughout, including a call at week 4
Founding Member Investment: $297
→ enrollment closes June 29th
→ The Initiation begins June 30th
HOW it works.
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Self paced content
Video, audio, and written — delivered in the format that fits your actual life, not the life you wish you had time for. Move through it on your schedule.
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Two live calls
Placed at the moments that matter most — week 4 when the pushback is live and week 6 when we close the loop together. Can't make it? Both calls are recorded.
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The Community
A room full of women in the exact same threshold moment you are in. You are not doing this in isolation. You are doing it with women who get it without explanation.
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voxer access
The real work doesn't only happen on calls. It happens in the parking lot. Right before you fold. That's when you need someone — and that's when I'm there.
05.
Direct Feedback
I am not sitting in the room with you, not just listening but supporting you along the way
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Replays
Because even when we want to show up, sometimes life gets busy. But we still matter and you matter to me.
and here is an early sign up bonus...
The first women who enroll will receive a private 30 minute 1:1 session with me before The Initiation begins.
We aren't just chatting.
This isn't an orientation. This is exactly what a 1:1 session with me looks like — real work, on the real thing you're carrying right now, and you are going to land on an action.
Yes, in 30 minutes.
I'm a mom of 4 and I have no time — so everything I do has to count. That session will count.
This is not available to everyone.
It is for the founding members who move first.
90 days after The Initiation
You've finally had the conversation with a family member you've been avoiding for three years.
You've launched the business you've been talking about.
You stopped saying yes to things you didn't want to do.
You booked the trip.
You left the toxic relationship.
You negotiated the promotion.
Not because the program fixed you...
Because you finally stopped waiting for permission to become who you already are.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Is this self paced or do I have to show up live?
Both. The weekly content is self paced so you move through it on your own schedule. The two live calls are scheduled but recorded — so if life happens you can catch the replay and not miss a thing.
What is Voxer?
Voxer is a free voice and text messaging app. Think of it like a walkie talkie — you can leave me a voice note or a message in the moments between sessions when you need to work something through. I will respond. This is not a bot. This is me.
What if I start and life gets in the way?
Then you bring that to the container. Because that is the work. Life getting in the way and you choosing yourself anyway — that's exactly what The Initiation is built for.
Is this therapy?
No. This is coaching. I am not a licensed therapist. What I am is a woman who is living this work and teaching from a place of real experience and real understanding. If you are in a place where you need therapeutic support I fully encourage that — this work can exist alongside it.
Why is the founding member investment only $297?
Because this is the first round and I want the right women in the room. You are not getting less — you are getting everything, including direct access to me, at a founding member rate that will not come back. The investment goes up in the next round.